Submitted by Kelly, Charlotte, NC

My child is having a hard time learning to say I'm sorry. Any tips for helping me teach her?

Answered by Amy Rees , Savvy Source Parenting & Preschool Editor

Very often, a child who has hurt a friend or flagrantly violated a house rule is just as upset as the person she offended. Demanding an immediate apology when a child is profoundly distraught just doesn’t work. Rather, give your child the time and space (a gentle time out, a hug) to calm down and feel regret before suggesting that she apologize or make amends. If you can show compassion for your upset child, it’s more likely that she’ll be able to feel empathy for her friend's feelings in turn.