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Contact Info

Circle of Friends
265 Moulton Street
San Francisco , CA  94123
www.circleoffriendssf.com

Tel: (415) 345-9184
Fax: (415) 922-8391

Director: Michele Etchenique
circleoffriendspreschool@yahoo.com

General Approach to Learning

Play-based
Play-based with some structure
Check Mark Predominantly teacher-led instruction
Montessori
Waldorf
Co-op
Reggio-Emilia

Application Information

Applications accepted After a face-to-face meeting at the school (tour, conversation with director, etc.)
Wait list Yes
Deadline for applications Rolling

Key Statistics

Total enrollment 30
Student/teacher ratio 6:1
Age cutoff for enrollment 2 years and 6 months
Extended day No
School year 09/2008 - 07/2009

Kindergarten Placement

Kindergartens that preschoolers from this school are now attending

Stuart Hall, Cathedral, St Vincent de Paul, Burke, Town, Alamo, Sacred Heart, Buena Vista, French-American School, Waldorf, Children's Day School, Claire Lilienthal, Chinese-American School, Hamlin

Parent Ratings

Parents at this school would recommend this school to other parents. Four Stars
Quality of teaching Four Stars
Development of social skills and work habits Four Stars
Home-school connection Three and Half Stars
Parent community Three and Half Stars
Discipline Four Stars
Facilities Three and Half Stars
Health Four And Half Stars
Safety Four Stars
Handling of separation Four Stars

Survey Information

Number of parents surveyed:  18

Director survey: Yes

Savvy Source survey: Yes

Parents who send their child to this preschool also like the following preschools:

  • JCC- Helen Diller Family Preschool
  • Lone Mountain Children's Center
  • One Fifty Parker School
  • Russian Hill School
  • Temple Emanu-el Preschool

General Info

Basic Stats

Total enrollment 30
Student/teacher ratio 6:1
Established 1996
Average tenure for teachers 8 yrs.

% of teachers with:

- Bachelors 50%
- Teaching credentials 50%
- CPR 100%
- First aid 100%

Transportation and Drop-off Policies

Transportation

- Parents bring their children to and from school


Dropoff Procedure

- Parents walk their child into the classroom

- Teachers/director meet children at their cars and walk the children into the classroom

- 8:15 AM is the earliest time a parent can drop off a child

Late Pickup Policy: A one time pardon. After that it's a $1.00 per minute late fee.

Features of the Preschool

Provide a third year Yes
Provide a kindergarten and elementary school program No
Affiliated with a religious institution No
Teach religious concepts No
Some experience serving children with special needs No

Accreditation, Membership & Awards

Accreditation by the National Association of Young Children No

Other Memberships

NAEYC; SFFDC

Facilities

CONDITION OF FACILITIES RATING (3.6) Three and Half Stars
Building, bathrooms, hallway Three and Half Stars
Classroom equipment and furniture Three Stars
Outside play equipment Three and Half Stars

Facilities Include:

Classrooms (with bathroom attached) Check
Classrooms (with kitchenette attached)
Music room Check
Art room Check
Library Check
Playground Check

Director's Comments

Question to director: Do you have any additional thoughts on what parents should consider when looking at your school? Is there any advice that you would like to provide to prospective parents?
Once accepted into the school, parents are making a commitment to pay for the entire year their child has been enrolled into. Parents will need to pay the balance of the year even if they leave the program, move away.... Our success comes from satisfied, returning parents who have been with us for many years.

Parents' Comments
Parent #1
I love that the school is small and intimate: it is the perfect school for children that are "thinkers"

Parent #2
I believe the main teacher, Michele has zero tolerance for kids who require a bit more effort to teach and do not fit into her 'ideal child' mold. Since this is a private school and not under the scrutiny of certain California state laws, it appears that the school has become quite lax and lazy in maintaining standards.

Parent #3
This school has a 'one-size-fits-all' curriculm. with individual needs and differences discouraged. Teacher communication is very poor

Parent #4
The school is small, so the two teachers focus very much time and attention on each child. They excel in music, art, French, and academics. At the same time, they make school fun and the children love attending. No one ever cries when being dropped off. It is a warm environment and provides a superb education.

Parent #5
My child learns French and music. She always comes home singing a new song that she memorized. She sings songs that are from various eras-Jazz, contemporary, etc.

Parent #6
The strengths of the school are many; the main weakness I see is that the owner and operator of the school does not have relationships with other schools to make it more of a 'feeder' school. She does not toot her own horn, but instead focuses on the kids. Her skills with children are wonderful but she has not made inroads with the various private schools in SF in which many parents wish to place their children. I have found that children from this school are often far ahead of their peers when they enter kindergarten.

Parent #7
This is a small school ( 10 per class- 2 teachers). The children have wonderful one-on-one attention. They discourage formation of cliques by splitting the children in informal rotating small groups. All of the children feel so comfortable, supported by teachers and secure with their friendships ( i.e.. you never hear so and so is weird, bad etc.) that they have time to focus on learning what they want to learn. As parents there is a very good support network and if you can't be somewhere on time generally some one is more than willing to pick up your child or help in some way. Also, an added bonus, the head teacher is French so they learn a lot of French songs, words etc.

School Philosophy & Day in the Life

School Philosophy and Mission

Circle of Friends Preschool & PreK was designed specifically to provide parents with a small school setting offering a unique program: an art based curriculum, an exposure to French and a wonderful music program for children 2.5-5.5 years. Our goal is to promote a life long love of learning. We are a school where respect, responsibility and inner discipline are encouraged.



Typical Day-In-The-Life At This School

We have (3) different classes:

Nursery school for ages 2.5-3.5
This is their first exposure to school, where they meet friends and learn to play and work in a structured environment. Art projects, French and Music are kept simple.

Preschool for ages 3.5-4.5
Here the children learn to problem solve using language to resolve disputes with the help of a teacher.
Daily progress is made in learning French, music, songs, poetry and dance.
Their art projects are more complex and school rules reinforced, along with self help skills.
They begin working on their book of letters, phonics, math and listening skills are reinforced.

Transitional Kindergarten for ages 4.5-5.5 This is a highly regarded kindergarten prep class for children entering school in the Fall.
They work on their book of numbers and a French book of words. The children are exposed to lower case letters and they are encouraged to demonstrate their writing, reading and counting abilities.
The children are taught self help and leadership skills essential for kindergarten.
Their art projects are more challenging and complex. They are read chapter books and participate in open discussions relating to the story.
Compassion and empathy for peers, respect for oneself, others, the environment and family is emphasized.
The French class focuses on: enunciation, articulation, phonics, counting, songs.
The music class focuses on recognizing notes, letters, math skills: fractions, counting, rhythm, ear training, use of musical instruments, dance and movement.

Curriculum & Teaching Approach

General Approach to Learning

Play-based
Play-based with some structure
Predominantly teacher-led instruction
Montessori
Waldorf
Co-op
Reggio-Emilia

Director's Comments

The school has a structure environment fostering a harmonious balance between artistic and musical expression, cognitive instruction, social and emotional interaction and physical exercise where self confidence is supported and developed by providing a positive school experience.

Social Skills & Work Habits

OVERALL RATING (4.2) Four Stars
This school has increased my child's:
Ability to listen and follow directions Four Stars
Ability to sit still for longer periods of time
Four Stars
Ability to be a part of a group of children Four Stars
Self-sufficiency and independence Four Stars
Awareness of others’ feelings Four Stars
Cooperation with other children Four Stars

Curriculum and Teaching Approach

Free Play Free Play Free Play with Some Structure Free Play with Some Structure Free Play with Some Structure
Language YES
Oral language - - Predominantly teacher-led instruction - n/a
Nursery rhymes, poems, songs - - Predominantly teacher-led instruction - n/a
Storybook reading - - Predominantly teacher-led instruction - n/a
Emerging literacy skills - - Predominantly teacher-led instruction - n/a
Cognitive Development n/a
Math and number sense - - Predominantly teacher-led instruction - YES
Time & space - - Predominantly teacher-led instruction - YES
Sci. reasoning/physical world - - Predominantly teacher-led instruction - YES
Music - - Predominantly teacher-led instruction - YES
Visual arts - - Predominantly teacher-led instruction - YES
Physical activity - Free play with some structure - - YES
Other subjects taught We provide the children with an exposure to the French language and culture through songs, poems, games, and cooking projects. Our music instructor is a Jazz musician and a certified Orff Music Instructor. We offer piano lessons to children 3 yr. on up. n/a
Director's Comments

Our approach is to provide an environment of fun and creativity with enthusiastic and loving teachers.

Parents' Comments

Parent #1
Music, French, reading, and writing are a huge part of the school curriculum at school. The students learn really great songs that are either original or creative jazz songs. We love hearing our daughter sing songs she learns at school.

Parent #2
Part of the children's day is structured and part is free play. They come home with very complex art projects that would have to be supervised for a 2,3, or 4 year old to complete. Here they are split into even smaller groups of 2 or 3 while the other children have story time or music or free play.

Parent #3
There are definite projects in music and art: in music, learning songs, and in art, projects which incorporate learning the alphabet, one's own name, color, shapes, elements such as background and foreground and so on--but not in a pedantic way. For instance, the teacher would have them trace a letter and draw a picture when they came in, ; then they would move on to circle time (2 per day: one in French, the other in English) and come back to a more complex art project. The kids remained engaged and had several things going on throughout the day but were never overwhelmed.

Parent #4
Music and Language are a huge focal point of the program as one teacher is also a professional Jazz Musician and another teacher is a French Teacher...the kids love "Circle" and learn many different songs in their native languages and also world religions

Quality of Teaching

Teachers Are:

OVERALL RATING: (4.2) Four Stars
Full of energy and seemingly happy in job Four Stars
Patient and affectionate with children Four Stars
Talks with children and listens carefully when they are talking with him/her Four Stars
Praises children for accomplishments and good behavior Four Stars
Provides feedback on what my child does during the day Three and Half Stars
Shares insights on my child that are helpful and accurate Three Stars
Identifies my child’s strengths and weaknesses Three and Half Stars
If necessary, provides additional support to my child during pickup and drop-off Three and Half Stars
Resolves disputes quickly, calmly and fairly in a manner that allows children to learn from the dispute Four And Half Stars
Notices children who are not on task and/or engaging with other children appropriately and quickly reengages them Four And Half Stars
Manages the energy level of the children so that all children feel safe and able to learn Four And Half Stars
Provides additional support to a child when s/he is clearly failing in her/his efforts Four And Half Stars
Strikes the proper balance between active and quiet play for children Four And Half Stars

Director's Comments on Individualized Teaching

Individualized Teaching


Description of how teachers work with children who are
"behind," "excelling" or "different" from the majority of students

Our school is designed to have a maximum of 12-14 students per class. This allows us to individualize the program. We are consciously aware of each child's abilities and weaknesses and can adapt the curriculum as needed to keep the children satisfied, challenged and happy.

Parents' Comments

Parent #1
This pre-school concentrates on learning through art and music, with French as part of the curriculum. It incorporates the principles of the Emiglio-Romano system of Italy. There are also special projects: there have been 2 CD's and a video made and the children also learn songs in different languages. They also learned geography, for instance, through some of these songs. Their artwork has been exhibited; they also made calendars which incorporated learning about the seasons. I can't even begin to tell how many things they have learned, as well as how ready they were for kindergarten, and ahead of many of their peers, having learned a lot of basics through playing, singing, creating art projects and learning French in the bargain! The school is also very small: a total of 12 children and 2 full-time teachers, so the ratio makes it possible for the children to get a great deal of attention and always be engaged.

Parent #2
Circle of Friends has a couple of great teachers. I can't say enough about the quality of all the programs Circle of Friends offer. I truly feel my sons exposure to French, Music and Art is truly amazing--they learned more as tiny tots than I know I learned in the first few years of elementary school! The music program is terrific--the kids learn about music theory, vocal performance,composers--both classical and jazz. This is the type of program most parents would pay for in addition to school as an enrichment opportunity and at CofF it's all part of the deal! They also do an excellent job providing the kids with French basics and elementary academics. My eldest son was more than prepared for the Kindergarten interview process and was admitted everywhere we applied. Our 4-year-old son in the program now, knows all his letters and numbers and is beginning pre-reading concepts. I am certain he will be more than ready for Kindergarten. And, my kids loved the program. The teachers make learning fun--it isn't a burn-out type place, but your children learn a LOT. This is a great school for exposure to the arts and is a wonderful place to start the academic process.

Parent #3
This is a small program with two teachers. Never was hit on 'teacher 3' and 'teacher 4' in lieu of 'not applicable.'

Parent #4
It's an exceptional school and really special. You're really blessed if you get your child in!

Home School Connection

Home-School Connection

OVERALL RATING (3.8) Three and Half Stars
Conducts an open house at start of school year Three and Half Stars
Conducts a parent-teacher meeting at start of school year Three Stars
Conducts regular parent teacher conferences Three and Half Stars
Provides summary of child’s learning at end of year Three Stars
Provides guidance on developmental goals for the following year Three and Half Stars
Provides guidance on best Kindergarten and elementary schools Five Stars
Director's Comments

We meet parents at the door during drop off and pick up and have an open door policy. Handouts are distributed about activities/projects taking place in class. Emails are a practical way for us to communicate with parents as well as by phone before and after school. We hold parent teacher conferences in the spring.We cannot make the decision for the parents. We are advisors and offer our expertise and guidance regarding elementary schools.

Separation

OVERALL RATING (4.0) Four Stars
Beginning of the year separation is handled through:
- Extra staff dedicated to handle separation
- Abbreviated schedule at start of school year

Director's and Parents' Comments

Director's Comments

We prefer that parents stay for the first half hour of class during the first week of class. This is essential for the 2.5 - 3.5 year olds to develop a sense of routine and trust.

Parents' Comments

Parent #1
Circle of Friends is an incredible program offering a nurturing, loving environment balanced with a very successful base of pre-K learning which takes place through art, music, and French. Discipline is gentle yet thorough teaching children respect for themselves, their peers and adults. My son has thrived in this program where structure provides confidence and security knowing 'what comes next' in his school day, and he has already successfully begun to use the invaluable tools his teachers provide him in his daily life.

Parent #2
There is a once a year parent-teacher conference.

Parent #3
The separation process was not a huge issue for my 2 daughters, but we were welcome to stay until they felt comfortable if it was difficult. Other parents did the same.

Parent #4
Circle of Friends is a very small school and as such is able to treat each case/child individually. Separation issues, learning progression, discipline, achievements are discussed as they occur. I really feel I am kept well informed of my son's experience at school. The Director is always open to one-on-one conversation either in person or over the phone and these mini-meetings really keep me on top of how he's doing. Our experience at Circle of Friends has been that it is just an extension of our home environment.

Parent #5
Circle of Friends is a very small school so some of your more structured questions don't apply. That doesn't mean the school is not strong in that area. For example, the school doesn't have or necessarily need a board.

Parent #6
The preschool director respects and works directly with children to acknowledge their feelings if there is separation anxiety, rather than having parents stay in the classroom, which in cases may aggravate the situation.

Parent #7
The teachers use slang in their communicating. For example they discipline the children for "spacing out". Since children at this age are very "literal" it is difficult for them to understand the expectations of the teacher.

Parent Community

COHESIVENESS RATING (3.6) Three and Half Stars

Parents:

- Hold social events outside of the school (with and/or without children)

- Encourage play dates out of school

- Shares information on matter related to our children (e.g. babysitter lists, pediatricians, extracurriculuar classes, etc.)


Parents' Comments

Parent #1
We may visit the classroom on a pre-scheduled basis although this is not encouraged. Any 'check-ups' on our children are preferred through meetings, phone calls or talking to the teachers directly, not through in-room observation.

Parent #2
There are occasional, optional, semi-social events such as kindergarten information night, wine and cheese fundraiser, end of year picnic, etc., but usually if there is something people see it as a good way to get together since not everyone is at every drop off pick up.

Parent #3
Get the parent together for socials.

Parent #4
Is made up of an open-minded, thoughtful, loving, generous group of parents who care deeply about the emotional, social and physical development of all of the children at Circle of Friends. We are all supportive of the school, the teachers and Michelle's (director) commitment to our children.

Parent #5
There are occasional, optional, semi-social events such as kindergarten information night, wine and cheese fundraiser etc, but usually if there is something people see it as a good way to get together since not everyone is at every drop off pick up.

Parent #6
All very informally

Parent #7
None

Parent #8
We had 2 parent potlucks w/o children. One was a welcome in the Fall; the other was to resolve issues related to a parent complaint about the school.

Modes of Communication Between School and Home

- Notes

- Phone Calls

- Voice Mail

- Email

- Special Meetings

- Two or More Regular Conferences

- Drop-Off

- Pick-Up

- Regular newsletter/printed updates circulated to the whole school


Parents' Comments

Parent #1
The school is very small (10 in the class) and so you have a lot of time to chat at drop off and pick up, however if you/they were concerned and wanted more privacy informal meetings could be scheduled at will.

Parent #2
They are available in any way - parents can reach out and they are very responsive.

Parent #3
As requested. It's a very open environment.

Discipline, Health and Safety

Discipline

OVERALL RATING (4.3) Four Stars
Parents' Opinions
Parents at this school, on average, believe that conflicts between children: are handled extraordinarily well in a way that not only gives me confidence in the safety of my child but also reassures me that my child (and his/her peers) are learning the early skills needed to socialize effectively with one another

Overview


Director's Description of Approach Toward Discipline


We discuss the issue in an open, nurturing environment where children can trust their teachers and are free to express their feelings and needs. We communicate with both parents and child if there is a recurring issue.

Director's Response to a Sample Discipline Scenario

Description of how teachers handle the following scenario: Child A and Child B are good friends and usually play together. One day, Child A decides to play with Child C and tells Child B, 'I don't want to play with you today. I'm playing with Child C instead.'

If this is a problem for Child C, we would then have all the children: A,B and C come together. Our approach would be to find out what the problem is by having them tell us (if possible). We would then address child A and B and ask: 'How would you feel if you couldn't play with your friend today?' 'How do you think that makes child C feel about not playing with you today?' 'What can you do so your friend, child C will feel better?' Address child C and ask: 'Does that sound good to you?' The issue may be resolved or it may require more discussion.

Parents' Notes on Discipline, Health and Safety

Parents' Comments

Parent #1
Outdoor Play: Extremely limited outside play area / equipment. Discipline: Circle of Friends provides reasonable and fair discipline with gentle guidance that helps the children understand boundaries and build respect for themselves and others. Time-outs are used effectively to teach right and wrong (1.what did you do wrong? 2.ok, now go and sit in the blue chair 3.again, why were you in the blue chair?).

Parent #2
The school is very small and the outside play area is a contained area. I would like it to be larger, however since it is contained, the children can play either inside or outside and still be watched by the teachers.

Parent #3
This is a small school. The children are there for 3-3 1/2 hours 2-3 days a week. There is a small outdoor area but really outdoor time is not why you are at this school, there is plenty of time for the park later. There is Acrosports (gymnastics) once a week for the 3 and 4 yr olds. I think discipline at the school is strict but very good and encourages the children to work things out themselves with out the atmosphere being frenetic. These kids sit down to eat their snacks at the table, sing a song, and then eat with spoons and forks, say please and thank you with no fuss etc.

Parent #4
Since the staff consists of only 2 teachers and occasionally parents for a special project, I'm not sure of the procedures for screening them. One owns the school and the other is well-known in the Bay Area for working at a couple of different schools.

Parent #5
Discipline is handled with the time-out method at Circle of Friends. I feel any situations with my sons were handled with sensitivity and fairness and both little guys were socialized very easily. The children are treated with respect as budding individual people. They are expected to make mistakes and learn from them. It has been my experience with both of our sons that the school's methodology has worked well to help them understand appropriate behavior and limits.

Parent #6
Outdoor play area is limited. This is not a concern to me as my child often goes to the playground after school. There is a fabulous one - Moscone - two blocks away.

Parent #7
outside play area is the size of a small walk-in closet. The one and only hallway is dark and VERY narrow. In my mind this is a definite hazard if there was a fire or any other reason to quickly evacuate a lot of frightened children

Parent #8
The classrooms and facilities are small, but the child teacher ratio is actually higher than 6:1: it's 4:1! (as there is a teachers' assistant) so I don't care at all about the size of the facility. Besides, little people don't take up much space :)

Health

OVERALL RATING (4.6) Four And Half Stars
Temperature and overall air circulation is comfortable Four And Half Stars
Healthy and nutritious snacks are provided Four And Half Stars
Toys and furniture are cleaned regularly Four And Half Stars

Food Allergies

- We do not allow certain foods in the classroom

- We keep special snacks for allergic children

- We ask parents to provide child-safe snacks for their allergic child

Medications

- We keep their medication on hand at all times

Safety

OVERALL RATING (4.4) Four Stars
Screen and identify all visitors Four And Half Stars
Parents may not bring sick children to school where they may infect others Four Stars

Ages, Schedule & Tuition

Ages, Class Size, Days & Tuition

Ages Class Size Days Tuition
From 4 years 6 months to
5 years 6 months
14 Mon 8:30am - 3:30pm
Wed 8:30am - 3:30pm
Fri 8:30am - 3:30pm
$10340/Year
From 4 years 6 months to
5 years 6 months
14 Mon 12:00pm - 3:00pm
Wed 12:00pm - 3:00pm
Fri 12:00pm - 3:00pm
$6545/Year
From 3 years 6 months to
4 years 6 months
14 Mon 8:30am - 11:30am
Wed 8:30am - 11:30am
Fri 8:30am - 11:30am
$5445/Year
From 2 years 6 months to
3 years 6 months
14 Tue 8:30am - 11:30am
Thu 8:30am - 11:30am
$4895/Year

Extended Care

- This school does not have extended care

Notes on Schedule and Extended Care

Notes

Nursery School T/Th 8:30-11:30am

Preschool MWF 8:30-11:30am

PreK MWF Noon-3:30pm
MWF 8:30-3:30pm (for 4.5 yr. olds pending space availability)

No extended care or early drop off

Calendar Year

School Year

09/2008 - 07/2009

Application & Admissions

Application Process

Applications are accepted: After a face-to-face meeting at the school (tour, conversation with director, etc.)

There is a wait list for upcoming school year. • I let them know on our initial phone conversation what their chances are of getting in the Fall. I will also follow up with an e-mail.

Parent visits tours are: Mandatory (in order to receive application)

Child interview process: Possible, at school's discretion and takes the form of small group setting

Parent interview process: Director-parent

Deadline for applications: Rolling

Application fee: $50.00

Admissions Process

Acceptance criteria: First-come basis based on siblings get priority.  

Notification occurs: Rolling

Deposit required: $20

Parents must submit deposit within the following timeframe of receiving notification of acceptance: Two weeks after notification.

Financial aid is not available.

Director's Comments

Comments

Read the application and sign appropriate papers.

Age/Child Requirements

Child must be 2 years and 6 months to enroll.

Child does not need to be potty trained to enroll.

Enquiries accepted on a rolling basis.

Director's views on diversity:
We are open to diversity and we have many students from Europe and Asia.

Kindergarten Placement & Tips

Kindergarten Placement

Kindergartens that preschoolers from this school are now attending

Stuart Hall, Cathedral, St Vincent de Paul, Burke, Town, Alamo, Sacred Heart, Buena Vista, French-American School, Waldorf, Children's Day School, Claire Lilienthal, Chinese-American School, Hamlin

Parents' Admission Tips

Advice from Parents to Prospective Parents on Admissions

Parent #1
Showed persistence.

Parent #2
It was very welcoming. I simply called, took a tour, and brought my child for another one. We joined right away. It was refreshing!

Parent #3
Got to know other parents at the school so I could get a realistic view of its programs and get to know the Director with a personal referral.

Parent #4
Be persistent. The school director focuses more on the children than on procedures, so it sometimes takes her a while to respond.

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