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Christmas Day Our Way

by Kim Tracy Prince -- Being Savvy San Fernando

When I was growing up, Christmas Day went like this:

-wake up, really excited about opening presents, but also nursing sugar hangover from sweets-filled Christmas Eve party
-open presents, then be hurried off to get dressed
-visit first set of grandparents
-visit second set of grandparents
-return home exhausted and cranky

And I'm sure it didn't even go that well for my parents, who had to shepherd three kids through this day.  I'm willing to bet that with sets of divorced and remarried parents and extended family multiplying all the time, other families get even more hectic on the holiday.

So I decided that even though I live far away from all of my kids' grandparents and that makes me very sad and homesick, the bright side is that we have no place to go on Christmas day.  No obligations.  No rituals that we MUST execute.  It's all up to us.  We can keep the things we like from our childhoods and toss what doesn't work for us.  Christmas dinner can be a trip to the drive through if we want that.  We haven't resorted to it yet, but the option is there.

So far in our children's young lives we've been lucky to have both sets of grandparents with us during the holiday, but this year we have one grandmother visiting only and she's easy to please.  So here is our loose plan:

Wake up.  Enjoy the day.  Eat something delicious.  Play with our new presents.  Maybe go somewhere.  Maybe not.  Enjoy each other.  After all, that's what Christmas is all about, isn't it?

Every year I record it all in the Christmas Memories Journal because I really want to hold onto it all.

Merry Christmas from our family to yours.